Ministry of The Topless Christian Woman
A Ministry of The Topless Christian Woman
By L. Tyler
P.O. Box 390155; San Diego, CA 92149-0155
oldeservant@excite.com
The topless Christian woman (TCW) has a real dilemma. She knows that Jesus made her beautiful, desirable and to be longed for and needed by some male or males out there in this universe. One of her problems is that so many times the male/males who find her beautiful, desirable, longed for and needed are not the male/males she wants or feels she needs. Often the TCW (topless Christian woman) is faced with the choice of either accepting a male who is less than she hoped for and experiencing life and sex with him, or being alone with no one with whom to share the experiences of life and sexual intimacy.
Even though the USA is a liberated society, it is still usually the male who chooses the female, the male the initiator and the woman the responder. Seems that's the way Jesus made us, with the men loaded with testosterone driven desire for the female and having very sensitive and obvious external genitals, and the woman loaded with estrogen, just enough testosterone to enable a vigorous sexual response, sensitive genitals tucked away out of sight and covered up, and breasts designed to feed and nurture the next generation while at the same time designed to catch the male's often undesired attention. It's funny to me that many women don't want the male's attention but their breasts are out there like big hunks of bait for a hungry tuna, and many men don't want to be bothered with females but their testosterone causes them to respond to the female's breasts and drives them to the women like the tuna's hunger drives it to the bait.
Well, back to the dilemmas of the TCWs, the TCW, let's call her SafroÒia, would love the freedom of going topless on a hot and steamy day, or of skinny dipping in a sparkling stream, or jogging topless through the park, but for many reasons she knows she can't if she wants any peace and privacy. She knows that going topless like that would excite and draw undesired and undesirable males, possibly at great peril to her, since rape can be a death sentence if the rapist has HIV (immune system failure) or HCV (causes viral liver cancer) or HPV (causes cervical cancer). As a Christian woman, she knows that she must be reasonably careful not to cause a male to desire to sexual sin with her (Mt 5:28).
From Romans 14:13 she knows that she must not put a spiritual-sexual stumbling-block in her brotherís path, nor anything to trip him up spiritually or sexually.
From Rom 14:15 she knows she should not pain her brother spiritually or sexually, including the pain of burning sexual desire for her.
From Rom 14:19 she knows that spiritually and sexually she should do that which makes for peace with her male brethren and the mutual upbuilding of their character in Jesus.
From Rm 14:20 she know she should sexually and spiritually not do that which results in the breaking down of Godís work in the lives of her brethren, being careful not to sexually or spiritually do that which would snare others in sinful sexual desires or deeds.
From Rm 15:2 she knows that she should not be sexually or spiritually doing anything that tends to cause her brother in Christ to fall into sex sin.
Most Christian women know that if they exposed their breasts or allowed a brothers to touch their breasts -- it would be stumbling block that would trip them up, causing them to painfully desire more, causing social stress and problems, pulling their character down into lusting, breaking down God's work in their lives, snaring them in lust and sex sin.
Most of the responsibility for controlling the effect of a TCW's breasts is her responsibility. She should know that if she knows the exposure or touching of her breasts will cause spiritual and sexual problems for a brother in Christ, the responsibility rests on her to not cause such problems(1Cor 8:9; 10:23-28). That's a lot of responsibility, especially for the woman who wants to have a man of her own. She has to be as careful and skillful as the veteran fisherman using bait to catch his fish. She knows her breasts will catch the attention of most males so she has be careful not to catch the attention of the wrong males.
If I were a well breasted woman I would keep them well covered in the general public, expose them a little when around acceptable males, expose them a little more when around a particularly desired male, and expose them a little more if I were at the point of becoming engaged but he is delaying his proposal or the wedding date. A wise woman can use breast/skin exposure to determine her wedding date if she is careful to not let him touch them until the wedding, keeping them well covered to delay the wedding and exposing more of them to speed up the wedding date. Finally on this note, I believe it is well known that once a woman has snared the man's heart and he is burning with desire for her, her face could be veiled and her whole body covered with a thick robe and he would still be burning with desire for her. Burning sexual passion is rarely rational.
So the TCW SafroÒia should know the reality of Rom 14--
[Paraphrased for application] 22 Have *you* faith [from the Scriptures that it is okay with God for you to be topless ] ? Have [that topless faith/conviction] to yourself [privately and/or discretely] before God [but not before those who don't agree with your faith/conviction]. Blessed is she who does not judge herself in what she allows. 23 But the one that doubts [the rightness before God of being topless] , if that one eat [toplessness, i.e. becomes topless] , is condemned; because [her toplessness] is not of faith [based on her understanding of the Scriptures}; but whatever [behavior is] not [the result] of faith/conviction is sin.
So she knows that she must experience her toplessness privately, discretely in a group like this where those who disagree with toplessness are asked to not join or participate. Experiencing her toplessness discretely in a group like this, why might she do so? Beauty is a marvel to mankind, as art and art museums demonstrate. A woman who knows she is beautiful knows she has treasured beauty in her breasts and for the joy of that beauty might want to share the joy of that great beauty with others. There is also the ministry she would/could have to highly testosteroned males like RenÈ and me.
Briefly for background let me explain what I mean. I have been highly testosteroned since puberty. As an adolescent not blessed with nocturnal emissions, I was already experiencing prostate congestion and occasionally the complication of prostititis. These conditions significantly aggravated my spastic urethra and colon. My urologist told me, confirmed later by my endocrinologists, that to avoid prostate congestion and porstititis I needed to void my prostate several times a week either by (1) regularly having large hard bowel movements (impossible with the spastic colon); (2) coming into the office at least twice a week to have the nurse use her gloved finger to anally massage to empty my prostate (couldn't afford it and to embarrassing); (3) being promiscuous several times a week (couldn't do that as a Christian); (4) being homosexual and receiving plenty of anal sex (couldn't do that as a Christian); by (5) marrying and having sex several times a week (couldn't do that when only 13-17 or single and seeking); or by (6) self-stimulating to orgasm several times a week.
I gradually learned in my early teens that self-stimulation was my only option. Fully aware that it is what one thinks while self-stimulating that determines whether or not the self-stimulation is sin or right (Mt. 5:28; Pr 6:25; Jas 1:14, 15; 2Pe 2:14; 1Jo 2:16; 2Co 10:5), I learned to control my thoughts, learned to respond to generalized female beauty, learned to sexually respond to the thought of touching/caressing the other "safer" parts of the female (face, neck, back, belly, arms, legs, buttox, feet), learned to NOT think of touching/caressing/sucking the breasts of a woman not mine by marriage, and learned NOT to think of exposing or experiencing the genitals of a woman not mine by marriage.
Now, back to the "ministry she would/could have to highly testosteroned males like RenÈ and me" as a topless woman, the topless Christian woman enables sexually handicapped males like us to void our prostrates by self-stimulation, moved by the beauty of the topless woman while being very careful not to think of touching or doing anything with the breasts of the topless Christian woman who is not our own by marriage. Part of the dilemma of the TCW SafroÒia is her awareness of such facts and deciding whether or not she wants to be involved in such a "ministry". Can it really be called a ministry?
Sex is a physical appetite. For men like RenÈ and me with prostate congestion problems and with wives who are not always available for or interested in frequent sex, it is an appetite that must be met as vitally as is the fulfilling of the need to urinate, have a bowel movement, eat or drink. If you don't drink or eat, you die. If you don't have bowel movements and urinate, you die. If you are highly testosteroned and you don't void your congested prostate, you have difficulty in urination, urethral spasms and colon spasms, and prostititis, which if frequent can lead to prostate cancer.
Jesus shows the significance of the ministry of feeding and giving drink to the thirsty and hungry (Mat 2:25-40; Isa 58).
Jesus shows the significance of the wife's ministry to the husband of meeting his sexual needs in order to enable him to avoid sex sin (1 Cor 7:1,2,3,4,5; Prov 5:15-20). I also believe that it is a true ministry for a wise Topless Christrian Woman to provide discrete (face not showing) photos of herself bare breasted and/or bared butt to help prostate congested Christian males void their prostates by self-stimulation and avoid prostate congestion, urethral and colon spasms and prostititis.
Why do Christian men without wives need to see topless Christian women in order to help them void their prostate, self-stimulating to orgasm without thinking sin - withouth thinking of doing sin? The reason is that it is a sin for them to void their prostates, self-stimulating to orgasm without thinking sin - without thinking of doing sin, while looking at and/or thinking about sinful/immoral women.
Rom 1:26This then is the reason why God gave them up to vile passions. For not only did the women among them exchange the natural [heterosexual] use of their bodies for one which is contrary to nature, but the men also, 27in just the same way—neglecting that for which nature intends women—burned with passion towards one another, men practicing shameful [homosexual] vice with men, and receiving in their own selves the reward which necessarily followed their misconduct.
28And just as they had refused to continue to have a full knowledge of God, so it was to utterly worthless minds that God gave them up, for them to do things which should not be done . . . 32In short, though knowing full well the sentence which God pronounces against actions such as theirs, as things which deserve death, they not only practice them, but even encourage and applaud others who do them. [NTMS]
Rom 1:2who the righteous judgment of God having known—that those practising such things are worthy of death—not only do them, but also have delight with those practising them. [Youngs]
Rom 1:32They know God’s decree, that those who practice such things deserve to die—yet they not only do them but even applaud others who practice them. [NRSV]
Rom 1:2Although they know God’s judgment that those who do such things deserve to die, they not only do these things but also approve of others who do them.
Rom 1:32Though they know God’s decree that those who practice such things deserve to die, they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them. [ESV]
If a man chooses to look at an image of a desirable woman to self-stimulate to orgasm without thinking sin,
we know he is delighting in her image, by choosing her image he has approved of her image for himself, and by choosing her image he has encouraged and applauded those, including her, who made her image available.
If such a man does this, he has chosen to encourage, applaud, delight in, approve of and give approval to her who is under God's death sentence, to her who deserves death from God. This is sin, first by failing to agree with God about what is sin (Prov 28:13), by failing to see the person as Jesus sees her (Psa 1:1; 15:4), and by participating in her sin.
***1 Tim 5:22 . . . Don’t participate in the sins of others. Keep yourself morally pure.
So the man of God should not sin by taking pleasure in, delighting in, approving the use of, and/or giving approval to women who display themselves sinfully, doing sex sin or showing their pudenda/vulva/labia/clitoris/vagina. Sex sin is sin in which a man does/touches the breasts of a woman who is not his wife, a man who sees and/or does the pudenda/vulva/labia/clitoris/vagina of a woman who is not his wife (Ezek 23; Prov 5:15-22). So the man of God needs the images of godly women, women and images they can righteously take pleasure in, delight in, approve of the use of and to whom they can give approval. So the godly woman may choose to minister to the needs of such godly men - by displaying their beauty without doing sex sin and without publicly displaying her pudenda/vulva/labia/clitoris/vagina, but always according to Rom 14.
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http://groups.google.com/group/ToplessChristianWomenAndMen == [Some fotos]
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http://groups.google.com/group/ToplessChristianWomenAndMen - 24
